So obviously, I've been asking many questions about "work" lately. What is work? What does it mean to me? How should work effect me or change me? Does work have more or less value based on the type of work? Is one type of work worth more than another and not just in monetary terms? Do I as a human being need to work? Is it a need just like needs for beauty, truth, nature, art, and recreation?

Although important, I don't want to discuss using your "gifts and talents" and the monetary return of work, at least, not right now. I have been gathering material on work and reading as much as I can. I would like to discuss who first does work effect? Is work for me? Or is it to just to save and change the world only?

As I turn and watch my wife going about her day it is obvious she does a lot of work. I don't have to list them here because we all know what moms do. Then I turn back and think about myself (something I do much of) sitting trying to find or create my perfect ideal work. Then I think about how my work involves getting to go out and about, meeting people here and there, and doing this and that. And she is at home doing dishes and changing diapers and cleaning the living room for the 59th time in 1hr. My work effects many people. Her work effects the family. My work could be saving the world? Her work saves me from going crazy because she is in the kitchen making some great chili (because it snowed all day yesterday).

So, where am I going with this? There are many aspects of work that effect you and me and others indirectly but what is most important is how it effects me or you as a person - as a human. Is the work of a mom less important then a CEO of a non-for profit organization that saves millions? NO! If it was then all moms should just quit and go become CEOs - well, we should all become CEOs then. I am not saying being a CEO is not noble or important. And I am not saying that moms who work are doing something wrong. What I am saying is that work is first off FOR the person doing it and not the people that it effects.

Regardless of the type of work being done (whether doing dishes or being a CEO) - work is good for me. It changes me. It helps me get to know myself and who I really am. It shows me my limits and boundaries as a human. It gives me a sense of accomplishment. So if you are stuck in a job you hate or a mom doing dishes all day or a CEO with tons of work - know that first, "work" is given to help you grow. And that is what really matters.

My experience thus far is suggesting that we don't have to do something great or do it all to be or feel important. It is about letting our work help us realize more of who we are and to help us grow and mature in our humanity. In this sense, doing dishes is just as important as directing a world organization. Your thoughts???

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